My name is Ashley Daniels, and I am the mother of two beautiful children, and I also care for my dear grandmother. My youngest, Sofia, is just five years old, and she’s already facing one of the hardest battles anyone could endure. This school year, Sofia started kindergarten, and everything seemed to be going well until we noticed something troubling: her stomach felt hard on the right side. At first, we didn’t know what it was, but after visiting her pediatrician, we were told to get an ultrasound for further investigation.
On November 14th, 2023, we went to the ultrasound, and later that afternoon, we received a call from the doctor. The news was devastating. Our sweet Sofia had a mass on her right kidney, and it appeared to be a Wilms Tumor, a type of kidney cancer. The shock of hearing the word “cancer” is something no parent should ever experience, and I felt my world crumble in that moment. Our little girl, who had been mostly healthy, was now facing the unimaginable.
The next few days were a whirlwind. We were rushed to Brenner Children’s Hospital in Winston-Salem, NC, where we learned that the cancer had already spread into Sofia’s lungs. The doctor’s prognosis was grim: Sofia had Stage IV kidney cancer. She had just turned three in February, and now we were faced with the heartbreaking reality that our precious girl’s future was uncertain. The doctors explained that the tumor on her right kidney would need to be removed immediately, and she would start chemotherapy soon after.
The plan was to perform surgery to remove her right kidney on Monday, November 24th, and insert a port-a-cath, which is a semi-permanent IV just under her skin to make chemotherapy easier. Her veins are too small to withstand the harsh chemicals, so the port would be invaluable as she starts this next phase of treatment. The surgery was scheduled, and though we felt the weight of what was happening, we knew we had to trust the doctors and hope for the best.
Now, Sofia is in the fight of her life. The road ahead is uncertain, but I refuse to let go of hope. She has always been a bright, loving child, and I know that she deserves every chance to fight this battle and win. Sofia has already shown such incredible strength, but this journey will be long and difficult.
As a mother, it’s hard to put into words the toll this has taken on our family. My husband and I are doing everything we can to stay strong, but the emotional, physical, and financial strain is overwhelming. Between the constant hospital visits, surgeries, and now the prospect of long-term chemotherapy, we need help. We are facing the possibility of losing our home, as we’re also trying to arrange care for my grandmother. I am doing my best to be there for Sofia, but I need your support.
I am asking for your prayers. Please pray for Sofia’s strength, for healing, and for her comfort through the pain she will endure. We know she’s strong, but we also know she will need all the love, support, and faith that we can gather for her. Please pray for us as a family, that we may have the strength to keep going, no matter what comes.
We also need help with the financial strain of this journey. The cost of Sofia’s treatment, travel, and day-to-day expenses while we stay by her side is immense. We are asking for any support you can offer, whether it’s through donations or just sharing our story with others who can help. Every little bit helps and will go toward giving Sofia the care she needs and ensuring that I can be with her throughout this difficult process.
Update on Sofia’s Surgery – November 25, 2023
I want to share a quick update on Sofia’s surgery. On November 24th, she underwent the procedure to remove her right kidney, which contained the large Wilms tumor. The surgery ended up being a grueling 8 hours, and in addition to removing the kidney, the doctors also removed her appendix, as it had become inflamed. Though the surgery was intense, Sofia made it through, and now she’s resting and recovering.
She’s in quite a bit of pain, and she’s scared, but she’s also shown such resilience, as she always does. She managed to feed her baby sister yesterday and has been wanting me to sit with her and hold her hand. We made it through one of the hardest parts, and we are ready to continue fighting this cancer with everything we have. I truly felt the power of your prayers during those long hours of surgery. Thank you for lifting us up and for being there for Sofia. We are so grateful to have such an incredible community around us, and we know that with your prayers and support, Sofia will continue to fight.
Please keep praying for her as she begins the next phase of treatment. We have a long road ahead, but I know that with God’s grace and your help, we can give Sofia the strength to make it through. Thank you for loving my little girl, for your kindness, and for helping us through this. We will never forget your support.
With love and gratitude,
Ashley Daniels and Family
